Knowing someone in person

Have you ever known someone new in person and you feel comfortable or at least have no problem with him/her? You’re okay with him/her? Then some people tell you “bad things” bout him/her, from their past experience with him/her or what they heard from others. Then you’re worried that you’d face these bad sides of…

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Delaying Judgment

First of all, I do not really believe in ā€œno judgment.ā€ I do not really buy things like ā€œI donā€™t judge.ā€ Let us just admit it: we all judge! We have our opinions. We have our own standards. We evaluate. We assess. We make sense of what we see, hear, experience, etc. As youā€™re reading…

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