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Category: Self-Reflection

This is where I try to reflect on the things I see, read, listen, observe, etc, think about them and see what I can do to improve myself.

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A Second Chance: Do We Want It? Will We Give It?

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago021 mins

Note: I recommended some movies in the last paragraphs. I made this post because a while ago, my mutual on Twitter asked about whether or not someone who’s made a terrible mistake deserves an apology and a second chance. They asked me to share my thoughts. I wrote my thoughts there but then I think…

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  • Introduction
  • Self-motivation
  • Self-Reflection

Friendship: How do You Define A Friend?

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago018 mins

How many friends do you have? How do you know they are your friends? How do you define a friend? This topic becomes kinda intriguing to me lately. I know that before, in another post, I said that “…either I’m friends with nobody or I’m friends with everybody.” (You can read it here). However, really,…

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  • Random
  • Self-Reflection

About Friendship: A Letter to My “Friends”

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago014 mins

People often tell me stories, and I love it. (I mean, I love stories, right?) Sometimes they tell me “bad stuff” about someone we both know, and I try to listen and stay neutral. Well, I don’t think it’s fair to judge something only based on one-sided stories, but again, I don’t want to invalidate…

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  • Self-Reflection

Victim Blaming? Blame the Perpetrators!

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago019 mins

It’s been on my mind, so as usual, I just have to make a poll on Instagram. But first of all, please note that I am not in any way trying to objectify women or comparing them to a thing, and in this special case, to a motorcycle. Not at all. I just want to…

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  • Idolatory
  • Self-Reflection
  • Today I Learned

Sexism: Is it a Preference?

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago034 mins

“Racists don’t think they are racists. When we try to tell them that what they do or say can be considered racist, some of them will be quick to defend believing and saying it’s just about preference. I thought it applied only to racists; I was wrong.” I started this post with that caption I…

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  • Idolatory
  • Self-Reflection
  • Today I Learned

“Dramas” in the Fandom: What to Do?

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago013 mins

I’ve been officially fangirling over Hey! Say! JUMP more than 7 months now. And, I’ve witnessed quite a number of “dramas” 🙈😅 Tbf, I didn’t sign up for these dramas. It’s really not the kind of fandom I imagined it to be. The fandom I imagined was the peaceful one, where I can interact with…

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  • Self-Reflection
  • Today I Learned

Being Grateful: Is It always Schadenfreude?

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago016 mins

It’s been on my mind for a while. I’ve been thinking about this since some time ago, this thing called Schadenfreude. I often see people trying to be grateful or thankful for their life by realizing that there are others that are less fortunate, and then some people would label this as Schadenfreude. I just…

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  • Idolatory
  • Self-motivation
  • Self-Reflection

(TW: Suicide) Care for them when they are still around, not when they’re already dead!

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago022 mins

It was July 17, 2020 night time at my place, July 18, 2020 Japan time. I was on my Twitter since it’s weekend (and I’m learning to take a break only on Weekdays). I was scrolling when I saw the post about the passing of Miura Haruma. I was “surprised” and really couldn’t believe it….

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  • Random
  • Self-Reflection

Romanticization of (Sexual) Harassment

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago014 mins

I’ve been having this thought for quite a while. And some time ago somehow I was “triggered” by this fanfic I happened to read and thought that I really had to write it down and post it here. When I was reading the story, I was like, “Gosh, this is not right.” One of the…

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  • Introduction
  • Self-Reflection

My Privilege: Supportive Parents

jUwa5 years ago3 years ago016 mins

I was poor but I did have my privileges. While I wasn’t financially privileged, I was emotionally supported to pursue my education. In the last post I was questioning myself if I was entitled enough to share my stories with the students in my high schools, not only because I don’t think I have been…

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